What is family?
Is family just the people whose blood you share? Are they still considered family when they treat you like a stranger?
From my experiences, I no longer believe that family is those you share blood with, but they are the people who sincerely care about you and accept you no matter what.
I do not believe in a family who treats even their own children as strangers. How could someone do such a thing? Family should consist of the people you would die for. It amazes me that people can be so selfish and inconsiderate and hypocritical.
How can you make someone who you supposedly care so much for fight for their self, by their self? How could you reject the last person who actually wanted to talk to you? What goes on in your mind that makes you think that everyone must live as harsh a life as you had to live? Sure, it was unfortunate, but I bet that if someone in your position had come up to you at that time and offered help, you would have taken it. So, now that you are in your position, why won't you help? Weren't you the man who swore that a man is nothing without family? So why do you turn away when they need you most? You're lucky that you're rejecting such a forgiving person. You're lucky that God chose to bless you with such an amazing family member. You're so lucky that God chose to bless you with someone the total opposite of you. After all that has happened within your family, it amazes me that you would believe her over him. You're not always right. You may be older, but you have no wisdom. You're very naive. You swear that you're this big man of God, but God would never turn away from someone crying for His help. God has given you the resources to help others and you use them for your own selfish needs.
I hope one day you realize how much you're hurting the ones who love you and the ones who believed you when everyone else was accusing you of wrong and the ones who never turned their back on you.
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